tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8803378958625396253.post2590229392582023280..comments2023-05-25T04:40:15.680-07:00Comments on Dreaming of Amelia: To tell or not to tellAmelia's Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01812660321909313305noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8803378958625396253.post-26546379042072619902011-05-20T16:59:53.732-07:002011-05-20T16:59:53.732-07:00Your courage is amazing Lena. I can only vaguely g...Your courage is amazing Lena. I can only vaguely guess how hard it would be to see all these happy parents with their children around you.<br /><br />In the end though, about telling or not your story, it seems to me you'd have to ask yourself why you would tell your story. If you think it may make you feel better, relieve some of the weight, then maybe you should try? Dunno, my rule of thumb is don't do (or not do) anything that you will regret later...<br /><br />Not much help, I know, but, well, that and prayers is all I can offer...baboulebouhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10978490176918685114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8803378958625396253.post-691951568704745242011-05-20T09:26:59.631-07:002011-05-20T09:26:59.631-07:00Alena, I think when you didn't mention Amelia ...Alena, I think when you didn't mention Amelia to the woman who bought your barbecue, you were being you. Your instinct was to protect her happiness and hide your pain. You were being kind. You don't deny Amelia when you do this, but I think, honour her with your selflessness. <br /><br />I guess you'll be in this situation again. Go with what's in your heart, it's a good one.<br /><br />In the meantime, we continue the prayers for you and Dan and Amelia.BrianMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06887262795003506150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8803378958625396253.post-92148392265258349222011-05-19T19:45:23.153-07:002011-05-19T19:45:23.153-07:00Thank you Melissa for your support. I love the ide...Thank you Melissa for your support. I love the idea of the afterlife. Some days I hope it's real, some days I think that humanity came up with it to heal the pain of loss. Either way, I hope my baby and your daddy and all the other loved ones are ok and are indeed waiting for us on the other side :)Amelia's Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01812660321909313305noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8803378958625396253.post-13773227761467800052011-05-19T17:57:42.570-07:002011-05-19T17:57:42.570-07:00I am in awe of your strength and courage blogging ...I am in awe of your strength and courage blogging about what it truly feels like, on a daily basis, to experience and talk about your grief. I learned a lot about the spiritual afterlife these past seven days and completely believe that your daughter Amelia is with you- watching you, protecting you and waiting to see you again:)Melissa@ marriedmysugardaddyhttp://www.marriedmysugardaddy.comnoreply@blogger.com